I left birdsite a year ago because it's moderation is terrible and drives away queer folk, women, people of color, etc. I honestly have no clue if the fediverse is better or if those problems here are just less talked-about.
Can someone recommend a queer-friendly instance led by women of color?
whomst.dog is a small instance with a friendly and welcoming userbase.
PM the admin for questions about instance blocks, the admin will serve you with a copy of the list and may reconsider a block if emailed by a user on a blocked instance.